This post comes with caveats. Yes, these thoughts are generalizations. Yes, there are exceptions. Yes, stereotypes paint a broad swath rather than acknowledge the individuals.
This is a list, in no particular order, of some confounding quirks I encountered in Italy. They were sometimes treasured, sometimes tolerated, (sometimes jaw-dropping and infuriating). These are traits that made me shake my head, chuckle in resignation and question my own rigid, structured thinking.
- Passion vs. intellect.
- Lax, loose regard for rules: ie. traffic, laws, ADA, etc. Unconstrained by regulations.
- Double system: “under the table” and “above board”.
- Mutable sense of timing and deadlines.
- Circular, roundabout thinking.
- Chaos and disorganization.
- Lack of fear.
- Unclear communications.
- Low-finish vs. refined. At times sloppy, at times polished.
- Blend of historic and contemporary, “high design”.
- Anti-rigid. Nothing’s pinned down. Approximate vs. exacting.
Perhaps, now, I will be more “flexibly systematic”. Looser around the edges.
Maureen, only you could come up with “flexibly systematic.”
Best wishes with your re-entry here in the US. Amazing to think you’ve been changed forever, by this fantastic adventure.